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How to ask for LinkedIn recommendations as a PM: What I’d do

Clement Kao
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Clement Kao
Clement Kao
Clement Kao
Clement Kao is Co-Founder of Product Manager HQ. He was previously a Principal Product Manager at Blend, an enterprise technology company that…
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LinkedIn recommendations aren't magic—but a few specific ones beat twenty vague compliments. Here's how I'd ask.

Who I'd ask

  • People who saw me own outcomes (EM, designer, PM peer, skip-level, founder)
  • Cross-functional partners who can speak to influence
  • Not only friends who will write fluff

Quality > quantity. Three sharp notes beat a wall of "great teammate."

How I'd make it easy

  1. Ask privately first (message > cold Recommend button)
  2. Remind them of one project and the outcome
  3. Offer 3–4 optional themes they could mention—not a ghostwritten paragraph unless they request a draft
  4. Give a deadline that's respectful
  5. Offer to reciprocate only if I can be honest

Prompt I'd send (short)

> Working on my PM search—would you be open to a LinkedIn recommendation focused on [project]? Totally fine if now's a bad time. Happy to make it easy with a few bullet reminders.

I'd never invent quotes. If someone declines, I move on.

Recommendations support a story you're already proving with a portfolio and, if useful, structured learning like a PM Certification. More practical notes in the newsletter.

Clement Kao
Clement Kao
Clement Kao is Co-Founder of Product Manager HQ. He was previously a Principal Product Manager at Blend, an enterprise technology company that is inventing a simpler and more transparent consumer lending experience while ensuring broader access for all types of borrowers.